jsarno
04-05-2008, 01:03 AM
Man, so it really is true that when you get married, your sex life is over?
Not completely true, but is based in fact.
My wife and I have more now than we did when we were 1 year into the marriage (will be 11 years of marriage in May).
A lot of women use sex to attract and keep a man when dating, and want to turn it into marriage. Once they are married, the sex slows down because she acheived her goal of marriage. Not all have these issues, but most have some form. For instance my brother got regular "oral" when he was dating, as soon as they got married, it stopped completely. I do mean completely. It happens. Hopefully you marry someone that is understanding, and willing to please you even if it's not heated like it was when you first got married / dated.
Not completely true, but is based in fact.
My wife and I have more now than we did when we were 1 year into the marriage (will be 11 years of marriage in May).
A lot of women use sex to attract and keep a man when dating, and want to turn it into marriage. Once they are married, the sex slows down because she acheived her goal of marriage. Not all have these issues, but most have some form. For instance my brother got regular "oral" when he was dating, as soon as they got married, it stopped completely. I do mean completely. It happens. Hopefully you marry someone that is understanding, and willing to please you even if it's not heated like it was when you first got married / dated.