ArtMonkDrillz
07-09-2008, 05:41 PM
My son has never dated before, but he is 15 and would like to and met a girl and asked me about it….. so I thought I'd try to (discretely) get some friendly advice from you guys.....
Answer: call, don't wait.Yeah, three days might be a bit too long to wait, but at the same time I dont think he should start texting her 5 minutes after he talks to her for the first time.
I'd say the next day is pretty good because it shows you aren't obsessing but at the same time it's not enough time that he's going to be sitting there over-thinking things.
SmootSmack
07-09-2008, 05:56 PM
Like Saden said, your son doesn't need to play games and wait. But, just make sure this doesn't happen
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dmek25
07-09-2008, 06:00 PM
Well, what if you are 15 and not a grown man? :)
if he got the digits, she must have some interest in him. tell him to call
Slingin Sammy 33
07-09-2008, 06:29 PM
What if she's a little intimidating and you really, really like her and don't want to scare her off?
I read the recent posts, sorry about not putting 2 + 2 together when I was at work earlier. Anyway, I've got a 15 yr. old too, and as a parent checking out her myspace or facebook is defintely a good idea.
Other than that, just tell him to be himself and don't play games. If she's a good kid and really does like him he would just mess things up by playing games anyway.
djnemo65
07-09-2008, 07:02 PM
Personally I don't think its realistic to expect a 15 year old to not screw this up royally. That's what being 15 is about, you screw these things up so by the time you get to college you kind of know what you are doing.
Lady Brave
07-09-2008, 07:44 PM
Personally I don't think its realistic to expect a 15 year old to not screw this up royally. That's what being 15 is about, you screw these things up so by the time you get to college you kind of know what you are doing.
This is not the response I expected from you. What's wrong with using this little pearl of wisdom you offered in another thread?
"At this point I think your best strategy for winning her over is to get a girlfriend who is way hotter and cooler than her. That always works."
;)
He needs to get on it, If she is hot, Someone else is trying to bang her.
djnemo65
07-09-2008, 08:23 PM
This is not the response I expected from you. What's wrong with using this little pearl of wisdom you offered in another thread?
"At this point I think your best strategy for winning her over is to get a girlfriend who is way hotter and cooler than her. That always works."
;)
Haha, that is good advice right?
itvnetop
07-09-2008, 08:28 PM
Like Saden said, your son doesn't need to play games and wait. But, just make sure this doesn't happen
u0PUrNwvvBk
SS... I can't even click that link, knowing what Mikey's about to do... that scene is just too painful.
Lady Brave
07-09-2008, 08:38 PM
Haha, that is good advice right?
I would have to respectfully disagree, but if it's worked for you, who am I to argue? :)
I'm of the opinion that wooing a woman and male chivalry in general died out a long time ago.