It doesn't take long to satisfy a woman in bed (from fox news)

Warpath · 04-03-2008, 08:53 PM

FOXNews.com - Optimal Sex Takes 3 to 13 Minutes, Study Finds - Health News | Current Health News | Medical News
NEW YORK — Maybe men had it right all along: It doesn't take long to satisfy a woman in bed.

A survey of sex therapists concluded the optimal amount of time for sexual intercourse was 3 to 13 minutes. The findings, to be published in the May issue of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, strike at the notion that endurance is the key to a great sex life.

If that sounds like good news to you, don't cheer too loudly. The time does not count foreplay, and the therapists did rate sexual intercourse that lasts from 1 to 2 minutes as "too short."

Researcher Eric Corty said he hoped to ease the minds of those who believe "more of something good is better, and if you really want to satisfy your partner, you should last forever."

The questions were not gender-specific, said Corty. But he said prior research has shown men and women want foreplay and sexual intercourse to last longer.

Dr. Irwin Goldstein, editor of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, cited a four-week study of 1,500 couples in 2005 that found the median time for sexual intercourse was 7.3 minutes. (Women in the study were armed with stopwatches.)

It's difficult for both older men and young men to make sexual intercourse last much longer, said Marianne Brandon, a clinical psychologist and director of Wellminds Wellbodies in Annapolis, Maryland.

"There are so many myths in our culture of what other people are doing sexually," Brandon said. "Most people's sex lives are not as exciting as other people think they are."

Fifty members of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research in the U.S. and Canada were surveyed by Corty, an associate professor of psychology at Penn State Erie, The Behrend College, and student Jenay Guardiani. Thirty-four members, or 68 percent, responded, although some said the optimal time depended on the couple.

Corty said he hoped to give an idea of what therapists find to be normal and satisfactory among the couples they see.

"People who read this will say, 'I last five minutes or my partner lasts eight minutes,' and say, 'That's OK,' " he said. "They will relax a little bit.

onlydarksets · 04-03-2008, 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Warpath

If that sounds like good news to you, don't cheer too loudly. The time does not count foreplay, and the therapists did rate sexual intercourse that lasts from 1 to 2 minutes as "too short."

What's that?

jsarno · 04-03-2008, 11:58 PM

See angry, I TOLD you 1 minute of sex with your spouse is not enough...gotta make it 3 minutes or it's just not worth it!

KLHJ2 · 04-04-2008, 07:28 AM

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Originally Posted by jsarno

See angry, I TOLD you 1 minute of sex with your spouse is not enough...gotta make it 3 minutes or it's just not worth it!

If I give her 3 min., she will want 6, so I tell her 1 and a half. She gets her 3 minuites, but I'm watching the clock. She gets a 3% time increase every year, while I get a 25% decrease in frequency every 6 months. Before you know it I am going to be 35 and having sex twice a year for 5 minuites. LOL!

Edit that was an overly dramatic exaggeration. Please do not take literally.

724Skinsfan · 04-04-2008, 08:20 AM

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Originally Posted by angryssg

If I give her 3 min., she will want 6, so I tell her 1 and a half. She gets her 3 minuites, but I'm watching the clock. She gets a 3% time increase every year, while I get a 25% decrease in frequency every 6 months. Before you know it I am going to be 35 and having sex twice a year for 5 minuites. LOL!

Edit that was an overly dramatic exaggeration. Please do not take literally.

Yep, that's about right. no not an exaggeration...{sigh}

skinsguy · 04-04-2008, 08:44 AM

Man, so it really is true that when you get married, your sex life is over?

KLHJ2 · 04-04-2008, 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by skinsguy

Man, so it really is true that when you get married, your sex life is over?

Not over, but on life support.

Schneed10 · 04-04-2008, 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by skinsguy

Man, so it really is true that when you get married, your sex life is over?

Depends on the woman you marry. We go hot and cold, I guess her hormones are cyclical or something. One week it will be three times a week. Then it can be a number of weeks with nothin.

Dry spells aren't a big deal though as long as the sex you do get is really good. Quality over quantity, any day. The quality is easily the most important thing.

TheMalcolmConnection · 04-04-2008, 09:25 AM

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Originally Posted by skinsguy

Man, so it really is true that when you get married, your sex life is over?

It's just a slow slide the longer you're together. It used to be 2-3 times a day when we were 15-16, now after 10 years and our first year or marriage, I get a weekday and a weekend day... Lame, but we're guys, it's never enough...

724Skinsfan · 04-04-2008, 09:38 AM

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Originally Posted by TheMalcolmConnection

It's just a slow slide the longer you're together. It used to be 2-3 times a day when we were 15-16, now after 10 years and our first year or marriage, I get a weekday and a weekend day... Lame, but we're guys, it's never enough...

...oh wait, I thought you meant...never mind.

Hog1 · 04-04-2008, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Schneed10

Depends on the woman you marry. We go hot and cold, I guess her hormones are cyclical or something. One week it will be three times a week. Then it can be a number of weeks with nothin.

Dry spells aren't a big deal though as long as the sex you do get is really good. Quality over quantity, any day. The quality is easily the most important thing.

BELIEVE ME Schneed.......NOBODY on this list in unaware when it's.........nothin at your house!!!!!!!!

Schneed10 · 04-04-2008, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Hog1

BELIEVE ME Schneed.......NOBODY on this list in unaware when it's.........nothin at your house!!!!!!!!

LOL

Nah, the dry spell doesn't get me down. If I'm grouchy around here it's probably because I'm hungry!

Hog1 · 04-04-2008, 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Schneed10

LOL

Nah, the dry spell doesn't get me down. If I'm grouchy around here it's probably because I'm hungry!

HAVE A GOOD WEEKEND

TheMalcolmConnection · 04-04-2008, 10:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Schneed10

Depends on the woman you marry. We go hot and cold, I guess her hormones are cyclical or something. One week it will be three times a week. Then it can be a number of weeks with nothin.

Dry spells aren't a big deal though as long as the sex you do get is really good. Quality over quantity, any day. The quality is easily the most important thing.

I didn't read your post before, but that's almost exactly like us. Seems like there's more cold spells than hot.

Definitely quality over quantity though..

And 724Skinsfan, you should be ashamed of yourself (or maybe I should

)

Monkeydad · 04-04-2008, 10:53 AM

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Originally Posted by angryssg

Not over, but on life support.

Speak for yourself.

This is obviously written by someone with less-then-adequate "skills".

04-03-2008, 08:53 PM	#1
Warpath The Starter Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Potomac Falls, VA Age: 37 Posts: 1,762	It doesn't take long to satisfy a woman in bed (from fox news) FOXNews.com - Optimal Sex Takes 3 to 13 Minutes, Study Finds - Health News \| Current Health News \| Medical News NEW YORK — Maybe men had it right all along: It doesn't take long to satisfy a woman in bed. A survey of sex therapists concluded the optimal amount of time for sexual intercourse was 3 to 13 minutes. The findings, to be published in the May issue of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, strike at the notion that endurance is the key to a great sex life. If that sounds like good news to you, don't cheer too loudly. The time does not count foreplay, and the therapists did rate sexual intercourse that lasts from 1 to 2 minutes as "too short." Researcher Eric Corty said he hoped to ease the minds of those who believe "more of something good is better, and if you really want to satisfy your partner, you should last forever." The questions were not gender-specific, said Corty. But he said prior research has shown men and women want foreplay and sexual intercourse to last longer. Dr. Irwin Goldstein, editor of the Journal of Sexual Medicine, cited a four-week study of 1,500 couples in 2005 that found the median time for sexual intercourse was 7.3 minutes. (Women in the study were armed with stopwatches.) It's difficult for both older men and young men to make sexual intercourse last much longer, said Marianne Brandon, a clinical psychologist and director of Wellminds Wellbodies in Annapolis, Maryland. "There are so many myths in our culture of what other people are doing sexually," Brandon said. "Most people's sex lives are not as exciting as other people think they are." Fifty members of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research in the U.S. and Canada were surveyed by Corty, an associate professor of psychology at Penn State Erie, The Behrend College, and student Jenay Guardiani. Thirty-four members, or 68 percent, responded, although some said the optimal time depended on the couple. Corty said he hoped to give an idea of what therapists find to be normal and satisfactory among the couples they see. "People who read this will say, 'I last five minutes or my partner lasts eight minutes,' and say, 'That's OK,' " he said. "They will relax a little bit.

04-03-2008, 11:58 PM	#3
jsarno Franchise Player Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: 31 Spooner St. Age: 38 Posts: 9,534	Re: It doesn't take long to satisfy a woman in bed (from fox news) See angry, I TOLD you 1 minute of sex with your spouse is not enough...gotta make it 3 minutes or it's just not worth it! __________________ Zoltan is ZESTY! - courtesy of joeredskin

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skinsguy Pro Bowl Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Greensboro, North Carolina Posts: 5,998	Re: It doesn't take long to satisfy a woman in bed (from fox news) Man, so it really is true that when you get married, your sex life is over? __________________ Not the same Skinsguy that posts on ES.

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