advice needed...

jsarno · 03-25-2009, 09:01 PM

Just an FYI (don't know if I have mentioned this yet), the last time Julia and I were together, the Skins won the SB...since I was with my ex, well, you know the drought!
I smell another SB ring coming!

hooskins · 03-26-2009, 01:13 AM

So what is the situation like now?

Monkeydad · 03-26-2009, 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by jsarno

Just an FYI (don't know if I have mentioned this yet), the last time Julia and I were together, the Skins won the SB...since I was with my ex, well, you know the drought!
I smell another SB ring coming!

That changes my mind on everything. Get this deal done.

Seriously, good luck, man. I don't agree with everything going on but as you said, it's a unique situation and only you and Julia will know for sure if you're doing the right thing. I commend you for thinking of the children first. They ARE the most important part in this ordeal.

Hog1 · 03-26-2009, 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Buster

That changes my mind on everything. Get this deal done.

Seriously, good luck, man. I don't agree with everything going on but as you said, it's a unique situation and only you and Julia will know for sure if you're doing the right thing. I commend you for thinking of the children first. They ARE the most important part in this ordeal.

DITTO!
MAKE IT HAPPEN J!!! Countin' on you!!!!

love them hogs · 03-26-2009, 05:53 PM

Your situation is almost a mirror image of my life six years ago.With the exception that I wasn't married.I met my soul mate and lost her for many years until one day out of the blue she sent me an e-mail.She was married and had a two year old son.I had always loved her and wanted to be with her but had to give it up because it was just not ,and still isn't ,in my personality to cheat or mess with another mans wife.This man however was abusive so I just said f-it and called her to see what was up.

Anyways, long story short here I am six years later and we are still together and I am happier than any point in my life.We have since had a daughter together and I love our children equally.I dare anybody to say that he is not my son.I am his father in every way except biologically.

Basically I'm saying if you Know and I mean you Know that the two of you are Soulmates let nothing get between that.Especially not something as shallow as money.

Hope this helps.

jsarno · 03-28-2009, 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by hooskins

So what is the situation like now?

Well, I know the situation is still early, but its going great. Taking the kiddos to Chuck E Cheese today. We are extremely happy together, and the kids call me papi. I love that. Julia is amazed at how well they have taken to me. It's likely the attention I give them, and how happy both of us are, and they notice the difference. We both clearly made the right choice, even though we are still not out of the woods yet.
It's amazing how life brightens up when you are loved and give love.

jsarno · 03-28-2009, 12:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Buster

That changes my mind on everything. Get this deal done.

Seriously, good luck, man. I don't agree with everything going on but as you said, it's a unique situation and only you and Julia will know for sure if you're doing the right thing. I commend you for thinking of the children first. They ARE the most important part in this ordeal.

I agree man...I have been sure to take care of them first...it's really quite easy, they are great kids.

jsarno · 03-28-2009, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by love them hogs

Your situation is almost a mirror image of my life six years ago.With the exception that I wasn't married.I met my soul mate and lost her for many years until one day out of the blue she sent me an e-mail.She was married and had a two year old son.I had always loved her and wanted to be with her but had to give it up because it was just not ,and still isn't ,in my personality to cheat or mess with another mans wife.This man however was abusive so I just said f-it and called her to see what was up.

Anyways, long story short here I am six years later and we are still together and I am happier than any point in my life.We have since had a daughter together and I love our children equally.I dare anybody to say that he is not my son.I am his father in every way except biologically.

Basically I'm saying if you Know and I mean you Know that the two of you are Soulmates let nothing get between that.Especially not something as shallow as money.

Hope this helps.

That is GREAT to know. It's good to hear I am not the only one that went through this. In particular I am interested to hear how well adjusted (or not) the kids are? (well in your case, your son)

jsarno · 03-28-2009, 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Hog1

DITTO!
MAKE IT HAPPEN J!!! Countin' on you!!!!

That's right man, Julia and I will bring a SB back to DC!!!! I sacrificed myself for all the fans! I would appreciate a special SB ring when we win it all...maybe a spot in the parade.

love them hogs · 03-28-2009, 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted by jsarno

That is GREAT to know. It's good to hear I am not the only one that went through this. In particular I am interested to hear how well adjusted (or not) the kids are? (well in your case, your son)

He is very well adjusted.Gets good grades,plays baseball and soccer and is a completely normal kid.I suppose that he was so young when I came along that it all seems natural to him to have two Daddies.It also helped a bunch that his biological father and I got along rather well believe it or not.It got to the point where it was actually easier for just me to go and do the dropping off and picking up when it came time for visitation.Early on we had a conversation,his bio-father and I,where I explained that I would never try to replace him and that I understood that he was an important part of his life.You will have to be thick skinned at first because there is bound to be hard feelings, but hopefully with a little time and patience things will get at very least civil.

mredskins · 03-30-2009, 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by jsarno

Well, I know the situation is still early, but its going great. Taking the kiddos to Chuck E Cheese today. We are extremely happy together, and the kids call me papi. I love that. Julia is amazed at how well they have taken to me. It's likely the attention I give them, and how happy both of us are, and they notice the difference. We both clearly made the right choice, even though we are still not out of the woods yet.
It's amazing how life brightens up when you are loved and give love.

Seriously we are supoose to beleive this. After knowing the kids for a few months and only during short visits you have them calling you "papi" as though you were their dad. Man, you are royal piece of shit. If I was that dad I would have your crazy bi-polar ass in the hospital by now!

dmek25 · 03-30-2009, 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by mredskins

Seriously we are supoose to beleive this. After knowing the kids for a few months and only during short visits you have them calling you "papi" as though you were their dad. Man, you are royal piece of shit. If I was that dad I would have your crazy bi-polar ass in the hospital by now!

what the heck is that all about? and congrats jsarno, i hope it all works out

EARTHQUAKE2689 · 03-30-2009, 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by mredskins

Seriously we are supoose to beleive this. After knowing the kids for a few months and only during short visits you have them calling you "papi" as though you were their dad. Man, you are royal piece of shit. If I was that dad I would have your crazy bi-polar ass in the hospital by now!

What the hell is that about????

SmootSmack · 03-30-2009, 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by mredskins

Seriously we are supoose to beleive this. After knowing the kids for a few months and only during short visits you have them calling you "papi" as though you were their dad. Man, you are royal piece of shit. If I was that dad I would have your crazy bi-polar ass in the hospital by now!

Goodness man, can't help but wonder if you've been "that dad" before

Approve or not, not sure calling jsarno a royal piece of shit adds anything here

saden1 · 03-30-2009, 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by mredskins

Seriously we are supoose to beleive this. After knowing the kids for a few months and only during short visits you have them calling you "papi" as though you were their dad. Man, you are royal piece of shit. If I was that dad I would have your crazy bi-polar ass in the hospital by now!

LOL...someone done stole your love and kids too? Time to get over it and be all the man you can be.

03-25-2009, 09:01 PM	#106
jsarno Franchise Player Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: 31 Spooner St. Age: 41 Posts: 9,534	Re: advice needed... Just an FYI (don't know if I have mentioned this yet), the last time Julia and I were together, the Skins won the SB...since I was with my ex, well, you know the drought! I smell another SB ring coming! __________________ Zoltan is ZESTY! - courtesy of joeredskin

03-26-2009, 01:13 AM	#107
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03-26-2009, 05:53 PM	#110
love them hogs Special Teams Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Baltimore for now Age: 37 Posts: 235	Re: advice needed... Your situation is almost a mirror image of my life six years ago.With the exception that I wasn't married.I met my soul mate and lost her for many years until one day out of the blue she sent me an e-mail.She was married and had a two year old son.I had always loved her and wanted to be with her but had to give it up because it was just not ,and still isn't ,in my personality to cheat or mess with another mans wife.This man however was abusive so I just said f-it and called her to see what was up. Anyways, long story short here I am six years later and we are still together and I am happier than any point in my life.We have since had a daughter together and I love our children equally.I dare anybody to say that he is not my son.I am his father in every way except biologically. Basically I'm saying if you Know and I mean you Know that the two of you are Soulmates let nothing get between that.Especially not something as shallow as money. Hope this helps.

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