Advice On Women Thread.

[Slingin Sammy 33]

Originally Posted by 12thMan

She was kicking and screaming bloody murder and said how I changed my mind and that had she known I was going to take this much time off she would have never had sex with me.

She's being totally manipulative in my opinion.

Long story short, she's not fine with how things went down.

Remember the saying, "Hell hath no fury like that of a woman scorned."

Make sure the di-lithium crystals hold to keep the shields up Scotty

[12thMan]

Originally Posted by Slingin Sammy 33

Remember the saying, "Hell hath no fury like that of a woman scorned."

Make sure the di-lithium crystals hold to keep the shields up Scotty

Except this is one of the first chicks that I've met that thinks like a guy. I do feel much better about completely shutting it down.

[firstdown]

I'm confused.

[12thMan]

Originally Posted by firstdown

I'm confused.

Join the club.

[KLHJ2]

Shutting it down? A woman wants to provide you with sex with no strings attached and you are shutting it down because you are "getting attached". You're right, she does think like a man and I cannnot believe that you are letting this golden opportunity pass you by.

You are ready to settle down and I can understand that, but since you already know that it isn't going to be with her why get bent out of shape?

[Trample the Elderly]

Originally Posted by Angry

Shutting it down? A woman wants to provide you with sex with no strings attached and you are shutting it down because you are "getting attached". Your'e right, she does think like a man and I cannnot believe that you are letting this golden opportunity pass you by.

You are ready to settle down and I can understand that, but since you already know that it isn't going to be with her why get bent out of shape?

I know? WTF?

[Schneed10]

Yeah, color me completely confused. I'm with her, why in the world do you need a month or two off? What does that even mean? Why not just break up?

12th, you're starting to sound like a woman.

[Mattyk]

This thread has entered the weird zone.

[saden1]

I don't get it....you either bang til you hear a clang or bail before you fall off the rail. No dancing.

[saden1]

Originally Posted by Angry

My advice is F**k her. When you get done F***ing her, then F**k her again. Wash rinse repeat. You F**k her as many times as you possibly can before she leaves. If you don't you will regret it for the rest of your life. Screw all the rules about not wanting to get too attached or whatever. You are already losing her, why punish yourself even more? You ride that chick like the ride that is getting shut down at the amusement park.

When she is gone, then you move on. Until then you should be unloading white ink all over her splat tat. I don't care if she is seeing somebody else because unless he is going with her it is not serious and you were there first.

LOL...Preach on brother Angry, preach on.

[mredskins]

Originally Posted by Mattyk

This thread has entered the weird zone.

It may still pass the famous jasnro advice thread after all!!!!

[Slingin Sammy 33]

Originally Posted by mredskins

It may still pass the famous jasnro advice thread after all!!!!

That jsarno thread was a complete mess, I don't think 12th can top that one. LOL.

[DynamiteRave]

Originally Posted by Slingin Sammy 33

That jsarno thread was a complete mess, I don't think 12th can top that one. LOL.

I miss jsarno. Whatever happened to him? Is he spending his time bending over some new woman so he doesn't have time for us anymore?

[tryfuhl]

Originally Posted by 12thMan

Okay, I'm just catching up on all the posts. This is interesting.

Thanks for all the input guys, this is good stuff. GMScud, I love the Hess reference!

So we're texting back and forth last night about mutual contacts that may help her with this event today, and I'm thinking nothing has changed. This morning we're on the phone talking like business as usual. Following the convo, I told her that the 2 per week thing was fools gold and I was really deceiving myself and leaving myself open to heartbreak. I told her I want a solid month or two off and zero communications. She was kicking and screaming bloody murder, rightfully accused me of changing my mind and that had she known I was going to take this much time off she would have never had sex with me. Ouch! She goes on to say she didn't want to do this over the phone, but in person. Okay, fine.

She's being totally manipulative in my opinion.

So I was meeting a few folks in the Dupont area to watch the second half of the World Cup and she met me there, but was avoiding the conversation the entire time. When the place cleared out we sat down and talked it through. Well I was doing all the talking. Basically I repeated the same thing, it's silly for me to pretend I don't have feelings yet still talk twice per week. Long story short, she's not fine with how things went down.

Get this, she was thinking about inviting me to a wedding out of town in a couple of weeks. Yeah, head scratcher but that's who I'm dealing with.

Someone asked the ages of the two ladies. This one is 32 going on 33 (very cute) and my former girl is 46. So there's a big gap. I'm almost exactly between the two of them.

Well it sounds like she likes you a bit too but isn't in a rush to get serious.. either that or she just wants you around when it's convenient.

Never make somebody a priority if you are only an option to them. That may not fit in your case but you'll know if it does or doesn't. The whole limit to 2 days a week thing is kind of silly and childish though. I get your reasoning for it but I mean say you're both bored and there's something good to do but you've already used your 2 days up that week? It's not like it's a meal ticket broseidon. Just go with the flow and if it becomes too difficult just tell her you found somebody more in tune with yourself whether or not you have if you can't just break it off completely.

[firstdown]

Ok I don't have all day to read this thread again but let me try and figure this out.

You know this chick who was a friend who will probably be moving and you guys started having sex without having a relationship. After sometime you started to have feelings for her but she does not have the same feelings and wants to keep the relationship as it is. You want to cool down having sex and talking with her because of your feelings toward her and thats where it now stands. All this time you like her as a friend but now have these feeling but you know she is not the type you would marry.

Also for us to give you better advise we need a pic of her.