Originally Posted by 12thMan
Let me clarify something for you guys. I think there's some confusion.
We both agree to stop having sex if the other person started dated someone else. So she started dated someone else and I cut things off, sexually, per our agreement. A little premature in my reaction, but I did. Where the back and forth has occurred is that she wants to maintain our happy little friendship like it was before while she's dating this new guy. And I'm like hell naw!
In the beginning I agreed that we would remain friends after the sex was done. And I've kept my word. But I didn't say things would be the same. This is what she's so pissed about. The fact that I've now cut things completely off.
so because she banged another guy for two weeks you can't go back to hitting it now? sounds like you feel betrayed or like you lost possession and it bothers you.. ill agree it's weird in those situations but treat it like a couch.. sink in and you'll feel good and not want to get back out