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[quote=DynamiteRave;745025]The dreaded ex.[/quote]

There's more than one in this story??? Anyway I say let him go. This guy (or guys) are sounding like real douchebags. He missed out. F him, and to top it all off he had the nerve to say he's open to continue things if it doesn't work out with the chick he broke up with you for. I would have kicked him in the nuts.

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;745026]There's more than one in this story??? Anyway I say let him go. This guy (or guys) are sounding like real douchebags. He missed out. F him, and to top it all off he had the nerve to say he's open to continue things if it doesn't work out with the chick he broke up with you for. I would have kicked him in the nuts.[/quote]

lol its just 1 guy. But, he was like, "It wasn't meant to work out right now, but it might in the future." And about a week after breaking up, he was throwing the, "We can be friends" at me, like it was some sort of consolation prize.

I dunno. I really thought I got it right this time with him everything about his was perfect (except the leaving me for someone else part) and it's been about a month, but a part of me still isn't ready to give up. I JUST started getting back into the field of dating. As bitchy as it sounds, I'm hoping that their relationship falls apart.

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[quote=DynamiteRave;745028]lol its just 1 guy. But, he was like, "It wasn't meant to work out right now, but it might in the future." And about a week after breaking up, he was throwing the, "We can be friends" at me, like it was some sort of consolation prize.

I dunno. I really thought I got it right this time with him everything about his was perfect (except the leaving me for someone else part) and it's been about a month, but a part of me still isn't ready to give up. I JUST started getting back into the field of dating. As bitchy as it sounds, I'm hoping that their relationship falls apart.[/quote]

I'm hoping it falls apart too!!! There's your swift justice with Nancy Grace right there. I wouldn't even talk to him. This is the kinda thing that makes me wanna wake my girlfriend up and yell at her.

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The friends thing after the fact rarely ever works out, especially in the long run. People do it because they're afraid to completely let go, but in the end it's the best thing to move on as quickly as possible.

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[quote=Mattyk;745056]The friends thing after the fact rarely ever works out, especially in the long run. People do it because they're afraid to completely let go, but in the end it's the best thing to move on as quickly as possible.[/quote]

Very true. Why would I wanna be friends with someone I wanna stab in the neck with a pencil.

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[quote=DynamiteRave;745028]lol its just 1 guy. But, he was like, "It wasn't meant to work out right now, but it might in the future." And about a week after breaking up, he was throwing the, "We can be friends" at me, like it was some sort of consolation prize.

I dunno. I really thought I got it right this time with him everything about his was perfect (except the leaving me for someone else part) and it's been about a month, but a part of me still isn't ready to give up. I JUST started getting back into the field of dating. As bitchy as it sounds, I'm hoping that their relationship falls apart.[/quote]

You need to just move on not worry about his life or relationship anymore. I know thats easy for me to say but thats the only way you can be happy. Also go out on a date where he hangs out and that will help allot.:food-smil

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1) Give up on being friends with him for 1 year.

2) Distract yourself. Go out with friends, go to football games, hockey games...etc. It's really hard on yourself to just sit around and dwell on stuff. Just get out there and live your life. It's too short to waste on some douche... Find someone who's worth it, but most importantly start with yourself.