Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??
 

[quote=Gmanc711;721916]SS, I'm happy for you man....[/quote]

Thanks....but neither of us were in the mood last night

Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??
 

[quote=SmootSmack;721925]Thanks....but neither of us were in the mood last night[/quote]

The next thread...

Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??
 

yeah solid!

Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??
 

I guess we can say it only took one nut to end this thread.

Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??
 

Pretty sure this is how it all ended !


[url=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3XH13WlncU&feature=related]YouTube - scary movie[/url]

Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??
 

So what should I do with this hottie I was going to introduce to Solid? j/k

Good for you man.

Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??
 

[quote=12thMan;721977]So what should I do with this hottie I was going to introduce to Solid? j/k

Good for you man.[/quote]

With a name like 12thMan, I'd guess nothing.

Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??
 

[quote=Buster;721988]With a name like 12thMan, I'd guess nothing.[/quote]

Hater alert!

Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??
 

[quote=MonkFan4Life;721949]Pretty sure this is how it all ended !


[URL="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3XH13WlncU&feature=related"]YouTube - scary movie[/URL][/quote]

It started like this:

[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mUNTRw1bJwQ&NR=1]YouTube - Some People Cant Take A Joke ¬¬[/ame]

Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??
 

[quote=12thMan;721996]Hater alert![/quote]

If by "hater", you mean "homophobe", then yes.

Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??
 

[quote=Gmanc711;721916]SS, I'm happy for you man....

[B]
But is anyone else kind of sad that this thread will be over?[/B][/quote]

I bumped the jsarno thread for a reason, you know? :D

Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??
 

[quote=Buster;722021]If by "hater", you mean "homophobe", then yes.[/quote]

Dude! LOL....man, I don't what to say about you Buster.

Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??
 

[quote=SolidSnake84;719429]She says she is either too tired or just doesnt feel like it. If i prod and push her too much about it, she gets angry. Like badly angry.

Last night i actually slept on our couch it was so bad.[/quote]

Dude I'm 23 married, and a 1 yr old boy. Trust me I know what your saying. Most guys at my job warned me that when u get married the sex stops haha. I guess it's kinda true. I try and not bring it up anymore because I'm tired of asking and hearing her Bitch about it when I do ask lol. I'm faithful to my wife and have a little patience so I'm hanging tough.. Porn only last so long lol. Good luck man hang in there.

Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??
 

[quote=MonkFan4Life;721476]Solid don't get so upset bro. You have to find a way to laugh through the pain.

I have been where you are. Many of us have. My sexual relationship with my wife is on a good ground now but perfect ? NO. I've been married for 4 years this September the 9th and I've been with my wife for 10 years now. The first 1 and a half she was my **** buddy. When I wanted it, I got it. How I wanted it, I got it. No matter the time, the place, whatever. After we became serious it started to slow down then when we moved in together I swear it would be about once a month. Once a month for about a year which then became about once every two months. Then once every 3 months. This went on for a loooong time. Even after getting married sex or lack there of was a major issue for me. Especially when I do all the cooking, most of the cleaning, and not to toot my horn I'm a damn good husband. I treat that broad right. Did I bitch about the sex thing ? ALL THE TIME.

Our sex was so infrequent I KNEW that day that she got pregnant. That's how bad it was. I went through 7 plus years of when she felt like it sex. Almost ended our relationship. But what I found to be most effective was when I stopped asking. We had many arguments about it, but what a lot of us have been saying is to take it slow. If she has been giving you excuse after excuse it's probably because she doesn't have an answer to give you. That was the worst thing for me.

To tell me "I don't know why I don't want to have sex with you" was complete and utter bullshit to me. After talking to my sister who works at an OB, she told me that women come into her office all the time about stuff like that. So while I may put up a link to a clip from Johnny Dangerously or Fast Times those are jokes but still I don't know all the answers. I can just tell you what worked for me. And what you're doing and how you are feeling now didn't. You are angry, confused, and frustrated. You only way to deal with it is in absolutes. But you have to think like a woman, she wants a reason to argue so she can point to that to say "this is why" but you can't give her that. Which is why I eventually took my friends advice and not asking for it.

Was it fun ? No, was it easy, hell no. Did it work ? Id like to say that it did. Sometimes I have to do it still. But now I can take solice in the fact that on Friday after we've picked our son up from daycare she's gonna look at me and say, "well it's the weekend". And even though I know what she means I always say, "yeah I know, we get to rest, get some cleaning done,...what do you have planned ?" Then she'll say, "well you know, we can do some things" 3 days out of the week I have the chance to get some tail. That is her compromise. Do I ask for it during the week ? Occasionally, will I get it ? Meh, it's hit or miss.

But be patient man. Just be with her, and it will all work itself out. Should you have to go through all of this ? No, but the fact is that you kinda have to. Unless you want to be lying next to her in the bed yet you all are so far apart.

Hit a J, drink some Remy, and play some Call of Duty. I prestiged and killed about 3,559,052 zombies off the no sex time. Many a frustraion was let out in Rust !

Keep your head up, just be patient. Be an all world husband but give it some time before you try to crank.[/quote]


AGREE!!! 100% with everything you said

Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??
 

[quote=DynamiteRave;719650]As a 23 year old female.. There is no such thing as a dry spell. If I'm not getting it at least a couple times a week, I start getting irritated.

... I guess I'm an nympho...[/quote]

God Bless America!!!