I might be having a kid
 

Ok i am freaking out here my ex just found out 2 days ago that she is 6 weeks pregnant and it could either be mine or some other guy its not that i dont want a kid it just that i feel i am too young i am only 18 but this is really freaking me out cause i wont know for 9 months whether it is mine or not has this ever happened to anyone else here i need to calm down but i cant HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;302588]Ok i am freaking out here my ex just found out 2 days ago that she is 6 weeks pregnant and it could either be mine or some other guy its not that i dont want a kid it just that i feel i am too young i am only 18 but this is really freaking me out cause i wont know for 9 months whether it is mine or not has this ever happened to anyone else here i need to calm down but i cant HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/quote]

Relax man. The deed has already been done. If you find out that it is yours, then just be the best dad you can be. I'm not saying that it isn't going to be stressfull, but things will end up working out for the best. By the way, just because you've got a kid doesn't mean that you have to stop living your life. You just got to start living it with someone else.

I got my wife pregnant when I was 20, and we were not married at the time. I wigged out too. It will be ok.

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Were you with your ex 6 weeks ago?

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AH...the pregnancy scares of our youth years.

Been there, done that...they're usually false alarms.

If she is pregnant, you better pray it's the other guy's. She sounds like a "busy body" to me...you're better off without her. BUT, if it is yours, step up, be a man and take care of things.

I believe she can get a paternity test before the baby is born...if I'm not mistaken. That would be a good idea.

Be careful! You're too young for this. ;)

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[quote=angryssg;302591]I got my wife pregnant when I was 20, and we were not married at the time. I wigged out too. It will be ok.[/quote]

I just got my wife pregnant for the first time. She's 28 and I'm 27 and we've been married 5 years. We were planning it...I STILL freaked out. It's scary under ANY circumstances! :)

We had a lot of scares before and even in the early years of our marriage...they suck big time.

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Congratulations brother! While having a child is a major responsibility, it is probably one of the greatest things in life.

:woot:

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Who are you talking to?



You're right, but it's probably not fun at 18! :)

Due in November, the day before the Bucs game. I already told my wife to at least expect a radio in the delivery room if it's Sunday, if I can't get a TV in.


Don't know if I have to buy
[IMG]http://i17.ebayimg.com/03/i/000/96/c0/f825_1.JPG[/IMG] or [IMG]http://i1.ebayimg.com/05/i/000/99/9a/cf62_1_b.JPG[/IMG] yet.

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[quote=Buster;302606]Who are you talking to?



You're right, but it's probably not fun at 18! :)

Due in November, the day before the Bucs game. I already told my wife to at least expect a radio in the delivery room if it's Sunday, if I can't get a TV in.


Don't know if I have to buy
[IMG]http://i17.ebayimg.com/03/i/000/96/c0/f825_1.JPG[/IMG] or [IMG]http://i1.ebayimg.com/05/i/000/99/9a/cf62_1_b.JPG[/IMG] yet.[/quote]
Classic! That's right bring your child into the world already sportin Burgandy and Gold!

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Yeah, my wife and I made a deal...

I get to drown the kid in Redskins stuff and she can buy the kid Yankees crap. (she's from NY)

I get football, she gets baseball.

Marriage is all about compromise. Football is better than baseball anyways, so I wasn't budging on the Skins indoctrination.

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[quote=Buster;302618]Yeah, my wife and I made a deal...

I get to drown the kid in Redskins stuff and she can buy the kid Yankees crap. (she's from NY)

I get football, she gets baseball.

Marriage is all about compromise. Football is better than baseball anyways, so I wasn't budging on the Skins indoctrination.[/quote]
You actually compromise sports with her? My wife gets to decorate the whole house excecpt one room, no way in hell she is getting sports too!

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Hey...I'm glad my wife actually likes sports, muscle cars (she wants me to build her one someday, but that will have to wait now) and grillin' food.

She bought me tickets to see my favorite baseball team in July (White Sox in Baltimore).

She's a good one. I'll let her have the Yankees if she is interested in sports and won't nag me about watching them all the time. Could be worse, I could have one of those wives that hates sports and makes me eat tofu and salads all of the time.

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[quote=Buster;302630]Hey...I'm glad my wife actually likes sports, muscle cars (she wants me to build her one someday, but that will have to wait now) and grillin' food.

She bought me tickets to see my favorite baseball team in July (White Sox in Baltimore).

She's a good one. I'll let her have the Yankees if she is interested in sports and won't nag me about watching them all the time. Could be worse, I could have one of those wives that hates sports and makes me eat tofu and salads all of the time.[/quote]
My wife hates sports, but I aint eatin no tofu! She would my kids in Dallas apparrell just to spite me if she thought she could live through it.

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[quote=Mattyk72;302593]Were you with your ex 6 weeks ago?[/quote]


yeah i was that is why i am freaking out so much

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[quote=EARTHQUAKE2689;302638]yeah i was that is why i am freaking out so much[/quote]


Did you pull out?

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[quote=mredskins;302640]Did you pull out?[/quote]


cant remember