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Originally Posted by skinsfan69

Um.. I think that's part of it. I don't want to cheat on my wife and I know I'm a little weak when it comes to women. And I certainly don't want to hurt anybody. I use to date someone for several years and I cheated and she found out about it. I'll never ever forget how I hurt this person. So I just have chosen not to do it yet. Am I a bad guy? No. I'm a nice guy and a good person who has a weakness for women. At least I can admit it

I never said it is ok for my married friends to cheat. It's not OK. I just don't judge their character because they choose to cheat.

If you don't judge a person's character by their actions, particular whether they cheat or not, than what the hell DO you judge their character by? Or do you just arbitrarily determine that someone is a "good person" and stick with that notion regardless of the facts of their actions?