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Originally Posted by 724Skinsfan
Hmmm, it's a tough call when to make that tough call. I say if he's pretty confident in himself then he can call whenever he wants.
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This is the winning post right here. If he has confidence it doesn't matter when he calls, because the attitude he will convey is that of self-assurance. Waiting a few days to call is a way of making it look like you are busier than you really are, more popular than you really are, which may work for a short time but eventually will be exposed as faking the funk.
There is no magic formula. I think it's typically best to wait a few days, but because you really have stuff going on and it really does take you that long to call, not because you are strategizing your every maneuver.
Anyway, what I would tell homeboy is this: you are young, you have your life ahead of you, you are probably good looking because your mom is always talking about how hot she is
. Live your life with complete belief in yourself and your future, and a cool girl won't be able to help being drawn to that.
Or just wait three days and hope for the best. Good luck shorty!