Far be it for me to sissy up this place, but this song actually helps me cope with loss. I'm probably going to lose my dog soon, which clearly isn't the same as losing a father, mother, sister, brother, or other loved one. But nevertheless.
Even if this particular song doesn't help, I hope you can find something (Bible, friends, etc.) to help you all cope.
Lala Song Player - I Will Follow You into the Dark by Death Cab for Cutie
If there's no one beside you when your soul embarks,
Then I'll follow you into the dark.