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Originally Posted by mooby
Ouch. So female #2 is leaving the country as well and you don't wanna get too attached because you know what's inevitably gonna happen?
Well, I can't give you too much advice on that because I've never been in that situation, but my gut tells me that if I was in that situation I'd probably enjoy the rest of my time with this girl until she leaves, and then deal with it when she leaves (aka mope around until a friend says here's a rebound girl, shit sucks but hey that's life for ya).
But it's different for every person. Everybody has their own way of dealing with things, some guys would be like, well I'll just try to distance myself from this chick now to avoid situation #1 playing out again later, and some other guys would be like, I better get in all the crazy sex and outrageous activities I can while the gettin's good.
So I can offer those words to help you basically, but it just boils down to, would you rather go through that hurt again by staying close to her or would you rather distance yourself now to ease the pain later? Only you can truly answer that question.
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Thanks. Well, me and number #2 aren't sexing anymore, so it doesn't really matter. And I'd be surprised if we all of sudden started again. It's just the big elephant in the room when we're around each other.