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Originally Posted by 12thMan
Per your usual, you're making a reasonable and sound argument. And I totally agree with you. But how do you know someone is marry material before you know? True, I'm not going to marry this girl but I'm not with anyone else either. So I'm kind of in no man's land.
It might not be until November before she figures out exactly where she'll end up.
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Most times, when you fall head over heels, you start thinking this is the one. Then you get to know the person, and then you make a decision on whether you will marry or not. For you to come out and say she's not marrying material tells me you've already made up your mind about it. So with that out of the way, I think this relationship is already past the point of no return, so it's time to shit or get off the pot so to speak. Cutting the relationship down to a set number of contact each week won't work, as you've seen already because she's breaking the 2/per rule. So if I were you, since she's not the marrying type (and has Schneed and saden have already said), it's time to cut your losses and move on.