Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??
Hey Solid just stop asking her for sex man. Don't grab her butt either, that makes it seem like you are making an advance. Touching her face ? I don't know but that shit has nothing to do with sex. She's really just being a woman. Or nothing against your wife because my wife has this sickness as well that called bitchy. All women go through it. It'll be okay. Just be patient with her. The way you talk and joke around don't change that because that's you. You can't and IMO shouldn't help that. But touching her butt and all leave it alone. Let her be her. Still show the love and all that. Do what you do around the house and all. Simply just take sex out of it. Don't ask for it or anything. Don't make a joke about it, don't do anything that can be mistaken for you're trying to get some ass moves. She'll eventually ask you what the deal is and then you can let her know that you are being patient but something has to change. But whatever your vices are. Enjoy them. I drank and went to the clouds to ease my mind but that's just me. Oh yeah and I purged the sacks every week or so. Gotta find something. So unless you gonna find a side piece just find your happy place throughout this trying time.
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