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wilsowilso · 08-18-2010, 02:37 PM

This is just my opinion. I am married with no kids.

I hope you have great luck tonight, but from everything I have read so far even if you are succesful it won't matter.

You yourself have mostly admitted that.

You two have stopped communicating. With this type of pressure/frustration it's really snowballed and now you just seem completely out of sorts.

My advice is you say to her tonight.

I don't want to have sex with you right now, but if you still respect and love me we need to TALK about sex tonight. Not for five minutes. We need to really talk about it because I'm frustrated and confused and I love you and I dont know where your heart and mind are at. You are my wife and my partner and I need you to communicate with me.

If she refuses you have to suggest marriage counseling. Strongly suggest.

08-18-2010, 02:37 PM	#235
wilsowilso Registered User Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Los Angeles Age: 52 Posts: 2,841	Re: understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go?? This is just my opinion. I am married with no kids. I hope you have great luck tonight, but from everything I have read so far even if you are succesful it won't matter. You yourself have mostly admitted that. You two have stopped communicating. With this type of pressure/frustration it's really snowballed and now you just seem completely out of sorts. My advice is you say to her tonight. I don't want to have sex with you right now, but if you still respect and love me we need to TALK about sex tonight. Not for five minutes. We need to really talk about it because I'm frustrated and confused and I love you and I dont know where your heart and mind are at. You are my wife and my partner and I need you to communicate with me. If she refuses you have to suggest marriage counseling. Strongly suggest.