understanding a sexless marriage: Should I stay or go??

[DynamiteRave]

Just coming from a woman, the "Your period is over, it's time to have sex" approach is NOT going to work. Granted she's your wife and the waters are a bit different than from someone you're just dating, it just screams, -I'm desperate for sex- which is, let me say, a turn off. I'm not saying you aren't planning to wine her and dine her in an act of seduction but that coming randomly, especially right after the end of her monthly is more than just obvious. I'm going to suggest you keep trying to talk to her about it, instead of waving your junk at her in a plea that it does something for her.

You need to keep letting her know you care for her and that you're deeply concerned about your relationship with her even in the midst of this sex drought. Love and concern should always come before the sex. My SO right now has told me before that if for some reason they had to abstain from sex to be with me, they would. Because they love me that much and although the sex is important, it's not the make or break of our relationship.

I know, I know, sex is an important part of a relationship but a month shouldn't be making you lose your damn mind. You'd think she had the antidote coming out from between her legs and you're going to die if you don't get it.

But you know what I'm saying? At this point, could you say the same thing about your wife? That you can see her through this, no sex thing? No matter how long? If she's not cheating on you, that is... But if you can't say yes or even maybe then you really need to look inside and do some self-searching.