Advice On Women Thread.

12thMan · 07-08-2010, 04:44 PM

Let me clarify something for you guys. I think there's some confusion.

We both agree to stop having sex if the other person started dated someone else. So she started dated someone else and I cut things off, sexually, per our agreement. A little premature in my reaction, but I did. Where the back and forth has occurred is that she wants to maintain our happy little friendship like it was before while she's dating this new guy. And I'm like hell naw!

In the beginning I agreed that we would remain friends after the sex was done. And I've kept my word. But I didn't say things would be the same. This is what she's so pissed about. The fact that I've now cut things completely off.

mredskins · 07-08-2010, 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by firstdown

ok i don't have all day to read this thread again but let me try and figure this out.

You know this chick who was a friend who will probably be moving and you guys started having sex without having a relationship. After sometime you started to have feelings for her but she does not have the same feelings and wants to keep the relationship as it is. You want to cool down having sex and talking with her because of your feelings toward her and thats where it now stands. All this time you like her as a friend but now have these feeling but you know she is not the type you would marry.

also for us to give you better advise we need a pic of her.

togtfo!!!!!! Lol!

mredskins · 07-08-2010, 04:51 PM

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Originally Posted by 12thMan

Let me clarify something for you guys. I think there's some confusion.

We both agree to stop having sex if the other person started dated someone else. So she started dated someone else and I cut things off, sexually, per our agreement. A little premature in my reaction, but I did. Where the back and forth has occurred is that she wants to maintain our happy little friendship like it was before while she's dating this new guy. And I'm like hell naw!

In the beginning I agreed that we would remain friends after the sex was done. And I've kept my word. But I didn't say things would be the same. This is what she's so pissed about. The fact that I've now cut things completely off.

You are positive you are male?

This makes no sense at all. I think you just like playing mind games.

12thMan · 07-08-2010, 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by mredskins

You are positive you are male?

This makes no sense at all. I think you just like playing mind games.

Well my manhood has been questioned from time to time. As far as mind games go, look, the whole thing is kind of messy. But I've been honest and real from the get, I just put on the brakes when I saw things moving in another direction. Truth is, if I wanted to play mind games I could have flipped out and said she shouldn't be seeing this guy because of my feelings.

Anyway, I hope this thread doesn't surpass Jsarno's insanity.

mredskins · 07-08-2010, 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by 12thMan

Well my manhood has been questioned from time to time. As far as mind games go, look, the whole thing is kind of messy. But I've been honest and real from the get, I just put on the brakes when I saw things moving in another direction. Truth is, if I wanted to play mind games I could have flipped out and said she shouldn't be seeing this guy because of my feelings.

Anyway, I hope this thread doesn't surpass Jsarno's insanity.

no worries I have probably had similar scenarios in my single days.

NOVA/DC area is a tough place to meet women, I have been there. Plenty to go around but if you not a high roller most will turn their nose up at you.

I do think PICS would make this thread so much better.

12thMan · 07-08-2010, 05:23 PM

No pics..you guys are funny!

Schneed10 · 07-08-2010, 05:24 PM

The reason why this thread will never surpass jsarno's:

If you posted pics of this girl, my jokes would be good natured. If jsarno posted pics of his girl, he would read my posts, close his browser, cry himself to sleep, and never look at his woman the same way again.

12thMan · 07-08-2010, 05:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Schneed10

The reason why this thread will never surpass jsarno's:

If you posted pics of this girl, my jokes would be good natured. If jsarno posted pics of his girl, he would read my posts, close his browser, cry himself to sleep, and never look at his woman the same way again.

The voice of reason. She's a hag, dude. Totally average looking chick.

And as I recall, you're the one that chased Hessy away!!

mredskins · 07-08-2010, 05:32 PM

Hess was about the worst member on here. She was just so awful.

Schneed10 · 07-08-2010, 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by 12thMan

The voice of reason. She's a hag, dude. Totally average looking chick.

And as I recall, you're the one that chased Hessy away!!

Yes I was, and the Warpath community silently thanks me every day. Even if I CB'd you a lil bit. But it was for the greater good my man.

12thMan · 07-08-2010, 05:39 PM

Curious, how many pages did jsarno's thread get up to?

Notice this thread has a generic title, so some other poor pup can revisit this later with his/her female woes.

SmootSmack · 07-08-2010, 05:54 PM

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Originally Posted by 12thMan

Curious, how many pages did jsarno's thread get up to?

Notice this thread has a generic title, so some other poor pup can revisit this later with his/her female woes.

That one went to 11

KLHJ2 · 07-08-2010, 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by 12thMan

Let me clarify something for you guys. I think there's some confusion.

We both agree to stop having sex if the other person started dated someone else. So she started dated someone else and I cut things off, sexually, per our agreement. A little premature in my reaction, but I did. Where the back and forth has occurred is that she wants to maintain our happy little friendship like it was before while she's dating this new guy. And I'm like hell naw!

In the beginning I agreed that we would remain friends after the sex was done. And I've kept my word. But I didn't say things would be the same. This is what she's so pissed about. The fact that I've now cut things completely off.

So she is or is not still dating this new guy?

firstdown · 07-08-2010, 06:27 PM

I missed the part that she is now banging another dude.

skinsfan69 · 07-08-2010, 07:20 PM

What a bunch of drama. Don't get your feelings caught up with a "friends w/ benefits" type of relationship. I really don't see why you can't be friends. I'm friends with a few women I've nailed. No big deal cause we both knew we weren't right for one another long term. I see you're in DC..I live across the bridge in Arlington. Just move on. There are so many beautiful professional women here that it's almost impossible to not meet someone else.

07-08-2010, 04:44 PM	#61
12thMan MVP Join Date: May 2005 Location: washington, D.C. Posts: 11,460	Re: Advice On Women Thread. Let me clarify something for you guys. I think there's some confusion. We both agree to stop having sex if the other person started dated someone else. So she started dated someone else and I cut things off, sexually, per our agreement. A little premature in my reaction, but I did. Where the back and forth has occurred is that she wants to maintain our happy little friendship like it was before while she's dating this new guy. And I'm like hell naw! In the beginning I agreed that we would remain friends after the sex was done. And I've kept my word. But I didn't say things would be the same. This is what she's so pissed about. The fact that I've now cut things completely off.

07-08-2010, 05:23 PM	#66
12thMan MVP Join Date: May 2005 Location: washington, D.C. Posts: 11,460	Re: Advice On Women Thread. No pics..you guys are funny!

07-08-2010, 05:24 PM	#67
Schneed10 A Dude Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Newtown Square, PA Age: 46 Posts: 12,458	Re: Advice On Women Thread. The reason why this thread will never surpass jsarno's: If you posted pics of this girl, my jokes would be good natured. If jsarno posted pics of his girl, he would read my posts, close his browser, cry himself to sleep, and never look at his woman the same way again. __________________ God made certain people to play football. He was one of them.

07-08-2010, 05:32 PM	#69
mredskins Gamebreaker Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 13,033	Re: Advice On Women Thread. Hess was about the worst member on here. She was just so awful. __________________ When life gives you paper jams, turn them into paper footballs!

07-08-2010, 05:39 PM	#71
12thMan MVP Join Date: May 2005 Location: washington, D.C. Posts: 11,460	Re: Advice On Women Thread. Curious, how many pages did jsarno's thread get up to? Notice this thread has a generic title, so some other poor pup can revisit this later with his/her female woes.

07-08-2010, 06:27 PM	#74
firstdown Living Legend Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: chesapeake, va Age: 61 Posts: 15,817	Re: Advice On Women Thread. I missed the part that she is now banging another dude.

07-08-2010, 07:20 PM	#75
skinsfan69 Living Legend Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Arlington, VA Posts: 17,466	Re: Advice On Women Thread. What a bunch of drama. Don't get your feelings caught up with a "friends w/ benefits" type of relationship. I really don't see why you can't be friends. I'm friends with a few women I've nailed. No big deal cause we both knew we weren't right for one another long term. I see you're in DC..I live across the bridge in Arlington. Just move on. There are so many beautiful professional women here that it's almost impossible to not meet someone else.

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