How long do you wait to call a girl?

[Daseal]

Depends on situation. At a party or something, next day. If it's early in the day, that evening is an option.

[hesscl34]

Originally Posted by SmootSmack

Like Saden said, your son doesn't need to play games and wait. But, just make sure this doesn't happen

OMG.. poor guy! Yes, this is what I was trying to avoid by asking what he should do... LOL

[Gmanc711]

Originally Posted by firstdown

Well at age 15 he is to young to sit around and wait on a girl so tell him to go out and play. That he will have plenty of time for girls to screw up his life.

TRUE STORY.

[724Skinsfan]

Hmmm, it's a tough call when to make that tough call. I say if he's pretty confident in himself then he can call whenever he wants.

[EternalEnigma21]

The fact that he's asking his mom for advice means he's dead in the water. He's overthinking. I know it sounds stupid, but being yourself is much more interesting than trying to conform to rules and social regulations. F it, if he feels like having a couple of shots and calling in the middle of the night while he's pleasuring himself, by all means have him do so. At least it will be memorable, and at 15 that's all you can really hope for.

[Gmanc711]

Originally Posted by EternalEnigma21

The fact that he's asking his mom for advice means he's dead in the water. He's overthinking. I know it sounds stupid, but being yourself is much more interesting than trying to conform to rules and social regulations. F it, if he feels like having a couple of shots and calling in the middle of the night while he's pleasuring himself, by all means have him do so. At least it will be memorable, and at 15 that's all you can really hope for.

Thats probaboly true as well. Not so much the part with asking his mom for any advice, absolutley nothing wrong with that....but that probaboly means he is overthinking, which is never good. I'm pretty much a shining example of overthinking everything, and ussually that is what ends up biting me in the ass in the end...but like someone else said, at least he's learning this all at 15, I didnt really pick up on it until well into college.

[djnemo65]

Originally Posted by 724Skinsfan

Hmmm, it's a tough call when to make that tough call. I say if he's pretty confident in himself then he can call whenever he wants.

This is the winning post right here. If he has confidence it doesn't matter when he calls, because the attitude he will convey is that of self-assurance. Waiting a few days to call is a way of making it look like you are busier than you really are, more popular than you really are, which may work for a short time but eventually will be exposed as faking the funk.

There is no magic formula. I think it's typically best to wait a few days, but because you really have stuff going on and it really does take you that long to call, not because you are strategizing your every maneuver.

Anyway, what I would tell homeboy is this: you are young, you have your life ahead of you, you are probably good looking because your mom is always talking about how hot she is. Live your life with complete belief in yourself and your future, and a cool girl won't be able to help being drawn to that.

Or just wait three days and hope for the best. Good luck shorty!

[EARTHQUAKE2689]

even at 15 if i like you then same or next day

[KLHJ2]

Originally Posted by Lady Brave

I would have to respectfully disagree, but if it's worked for you, who am I to argue?

I'm of the opinion that wooing a woman and male chivalry in general died out a long time ago.

Please understand that I am joking........ Around the same time you women wanted to be treated equal with men.


I know that you are not that kind of woman, but I will take my shots when I can get them.

[jdlea]

Originally Posted by Mattyk72

3 days is kinda money. You don't want to seem too desperate.

I'm a little disappointed that no one caught this, but Swingers was a great movie!

[MTK]

Originally Posted by EternalEnigma21

The fact that he's asking his mom for advice means he's dead in the water. He's overthinking. I know it sounds stupid, but being yourself is much more interesting than trying to conform to rules and social regulations. F it, if he feels like having a couple of shots and calling in the middle of the night while he's pleasuring himself, by all means have him do so. At least it will be memorable, and at 15 that's all you can really hope for.

Great point. At 15 years old I couldn't have imagined asking my Mom for advice on dating.

[MTK]

Originally Posted by jdlea

I'm a little disappointed that no one caught this, but Swingers was a great movie!

One of my favorite scenes ever


Mike: So how long do I wait to call?

Trent: A day.

Mike: Tomorrow.

Sue: Tomorrow, then a day.

Trent: Yeah.

Mike: So two days?

Trent: Yeah, I guess you could call it that, two days.

Sue: Definitely, two days is like industry standard.

Trent: You know I used to wait two days to call anybody, but now it's like everyone in town waits two days. So I think three days is kind of money. What do you think?

Sue: Yeah, but two's enough not to look anxious.

Trent: Yeah, two's enough not to look anxious. But I think three days is kind of money. You know because you...

Mike: Yeah, but you know what, maybe I'll wait 3 weeks. How's that? And tell her I was cleaning out my wallet and I just happened to run into her number.

Charles: Then ask her where you met her.

Mike: Yeah, I'll ask her where I met her. I don't remember. What does she look like? And then I'll asked if we fucked. Is that... would that be... T, would that be the money?

Trent: You know what. Ha ha ha Mike, laugh all you want but if you call too soon you might scare off a nice baby who's ready to party.

Mike: Well how long are you guys gonna wait to call your babies?

Trent, Sue: Six days.

[jdlea]

Swingers is easily one of my favorite movies of all time

[BigSKINBauer]

usually phone numbers picked up on the weekend are called on Monday. Makes life easy.

[MTK]

Originally Posted by jdlea

Swingers is easily one of my favorite movies of all time

Same here. It never gets old, I could watch it over and over.