The Relationships Thread

RedskinRat · 11-14-2012, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by DynamiteRave

Well here I am back in this thread. Just got dumped after a year and a half.

Sorry to hear that.

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I'm not taking it too well.

Oh, no......

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(And I'm coming to men for solace :P)

Do NOT ask men for relationship advice, we don't know WTF is going on most of the time.

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I had been dating a chick for the past year and a half. <SNIP>

You're obviously very upset, it's going to take a bottle of wine and a chat with a good friend to process this. Don't think WP will help much.

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Originally Posted by DynamiteRave

When I ask her what's her logic behind leaving

Dude, do NOT bring logic up when questioning someones emotional decision. I wish you the best, relationships are the hardest thing to rationalize. I've stopped trying, I just drift through life like an untethered balloon filled with helium and an unruly squirrel (in a oxygen mask cos he's clearly NOT going to live long breathing helium).

Hog1 · 11-12-2012, 09:21 PM

Sorry your having to deal with all that DRave.....definitely not fun.
It's just my opinion.....but when things don't add up..Your not getting the truth. All things are Great today....Gone tomorrow? I don't think so....
Not getting the whole truth.....

Bishop Hammer · 11-12-2012, 11:05 PM

Ditto. Hope you pull through your problems Rave.

punch it in · 11-13-2012, 01:33 AM

If you love her fight for her.
Personally though i have that "Everything happens for a reason feeling" when im reading your story. I feel like there is someone better out there for you who will give you unconditional love and not wishy washy love. You deserve unconditional love if that is what your willing to give.

DynamiteRave · 11-13-2012, 02:09 AM

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Originally Posted by punch it in

If you love her fight for her.
Personally though i have that "Everything happens for a reason feeling" when im reading your story. I feel like there is someone better out there for you who will give you unconditional love and not wishy washy love. You deserve unconditional love if that is what your willing to give.

Thanks punch. I'm definitely not going down without a fight. But I understand where you're coming from. If it doesn't work out I'll probably hang it up for awhile and take a break from the dating scene. Let mr. or ms right come find me.

firstdown · 11-13-2012, 10:39 AM

I hate to say this but it sounds like she has found someone new and does not want to tell you. Did you ask if there was someone new in her life? Not sure what people mean about not going down without a fight. If you have to fight to keep her then it just putting off the inevitable. I know its not easy but your young and life has more to offer so allow a week to be a little depressed then move on. It also sounds like you have jumped from one relationship (your post to start the thread) right into this relationship. You need to take time for yourself and realize you don't need a GF to make you whole (not sure if thats the case). When you do it makes dating allot easier. I think people make life more complicated then it needs to be.

mredskins · 11-13-2012, 10:46 AM

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I hate to say this but it sounds like she has found someone new and does not want to tell you. Did you ask if there was someone new in her life? Not sure what people mean about not going down without a fight. If you have to fight to keep her then it just putting off the inevitable. I know its not easy but your young and life has more to offer so allow a week to be a little depressed then move on. It also sounds like you have jumped from one relationship (your post to start the thread) right into this relationship. You need to take time for yourself and realize you don't need a GF to make you whole (not sure if thats the case). When you do it makes dating allot easier. I think people make life more complicated then it needs to be.

I have to agree. Time to move on. I don't understand the fight think either. You can't make someone want you.

DynamiteRave · 11-13-2012, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by firstdown

I hate to say this but it sounds like she has found someone new and does not want to tell you. Did you ask if there was someone new in her life? Not sure what people mean about not going down without a fight. If you have to fight to keep her then it just putting off the inevitable. I know its not easy but your young and life has more to offer so allow a week to be a little depressed then move on. It also sounds like you have jumped from one relationship (your post to start the thread) right into this relationship. You need to take time for yourself and realize you don't need a GF to make you whole (not sure if thats the case). When you do it makes dating allot easier. I think people make life more complicated then it needs to be.

When I made the first post, I was already involved with this current one. I was questioning whether or not I should be friends with my ex. We put shit to bed and now we're friendly.

Also she's not seeing anyone else. In fact, I think she's too distraught right now.

firstdown · 11-13-2012, 12:49 PM

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Originally Posted by DynamiteRave

When I made the first post, I was already involved with this current one. I was questioning whether or not I should be friends with my ex. We put shit to bed and now we're friendly.

Also she's not seeing anyone else. In fact, I think she's too distraught right now.

What you need is a good Redskins ass kicking of the Eagles to make your week a little brighter.

DynamiteRave · 11-13-2012, 12:51 PM

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What you need is a good Redskins ass kicking of the Eagles to make your week a little brighter.

YES. This always helps. lol

Monkeydad · 11-13-2012, 11:18 AM

FD is right.

punch it in · 11-13-2012, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by DynamiteRave

Thanks punch. I'm definitely not going down without a fight. But I understand where you're coming from. If it doesn't work out I'll probably hang it up for awhile and take a break from the dating scene. Let mr. or ms right come find me.

I was obsessed for years with finding Mrs Right. Could'nt even find Mrs Close To Right. Lol. One day she found me.

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Reaching just pushes it further away. Strange how love works.

punch it in · 11-13-2012, 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by firstdown

What you need is a good Redskins ass kicking of the Eagles to make your week a little brighter.

Amen.

12thMan · 11-13-2012, 01:40 PM

The hard truth is it really sucks a lot right now. But you'll move on and find someone who makes you happy. You'll always love this person and vice-versa, but sometimes timing in relationships are just as important as love itself. Someday you'll find the combination of both and things will work out. Keep your head up.

firstdown · 11-13-2012, 01:59 PM

To give you better advise we really need to see a picture of the GF we are talking about.

11-12-2012, 09:21 PM	#2
Hog1 Quietly Dominating the East Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Naples, Florida Posts: 10,675	Re: The Relationships Thread Sorry your having to deal with all that DRave.....definitely not fun. It's just my opinion.....but when things don't add up..Your not getting the truth. All things are Great today....Gone tomorrow? I don't think so.... Not getting the whole truth..... __________________ Goodbye Sean..........Vaya Con Dios thankyou Joe....... *“God made certain people to play football. He was one of them.” – Joe Gibbs*

11-12-2012, 11:05 PM	#3
Bishop Hammer Special Teams Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 323	Re: The Relationships Thread Ditto. Hope you pull through your problems Rave. __________________ I don't have to sell my soul he's already in me I don't need to sell my soul he's already in me I wanna be adored I wanna be adored Stone Roses "I wanna be adored"

11-13-2012, 10:39 AM	#6
firstdown Living Legend Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: chesapeake, va Age: 61 Posts: 15,817	Re: The Relationships Thread I hate to say this but it sounds like she has found someone new and does not want to tell you. Did you ask if there was someone new in her life? Not sure what people mean about not going down without a fight. If you have to fight to keep her then it just putting off the inevitable. I know its not easy but your young and life has more to offer so allow a week to be a little depressed then move on. It also sounds like you have jumped from one relationship (your post to start the thread) right into this relationship. You need to take time for yourself and realize you don't need a GF to make you whole (not sure if thats the case). When you do it makes dating allot easier. I think people make life more complicated then it needs to be.

11-13-2012, 11:18 AM	#11
Monkeydad Living Legend Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: PA Age: 46 Posts: 17,460	Re: The Relationships Thread FD is right. __________________ Not sent from a Droid, iPhone, Blackberry or toaster

11-13-2012, 01:40 PM	#14
12thMan MVP Join Date: May 2005 Location: washington, D.C. Posts: 11,460	Re: The Relationships Thread The hard truth is it really sucks a lot right now. But you'll move on and find someone who makes you happy. You'll always love this person and vice-versa, but sometimes timing in relationships are just as important as love itself. Someday you'll find the combination of both and things will work out. Keep your head up.

11-13-2012, 01:33 AM	#4
punch it in From a Land Down Under Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: toms river, nj Age: 54 Posts: 24,238	If you love her fight for her. Personally though i have that "Everything happens for a reason feeling" when im reading your story. I feel like there is someone better out there for you who will give you unconditional love and not wishy washy love. You deserve unconditional love if that is what your willing to give.

11-13-2012, 01:59 PM	#15
firstdown Living Legend Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: chesapeake, va Age: 61 Posts: 15,817	Re: The Relationships Thread To give you better advise we really need to see a picture of the GF we are talking about.

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