RIP Dwayne Haskins

[SunnySide]

Originally Posted by Chief X_Phackter

Thought I would drop this here too since we're talking about the unexpected and tragic loss of life.

Remember - life is a gift, and you never know when your number is going to be up. Also, please recognize that there are people, maybe someone close to you, who may be fighting demons - and it might not be all that apparent.

I challenge all of you to check in on your brothers and sisters - especially those whom you haven't talked with in a while. I just learned last night that a friend of mine, father of two boys (14 / 16) took his own life. I haven't really spoken much to him since about November. Our boys hung out, we would do happy hour in the back yard on occasion before we moved across town. I wish I had checked in on him more often. He was one of those dudes who you would NEVER expect to do such a thing. Seemingly had everything together, wonderful family, job, etc.

You just never know. Check in on your peeps...

Let us learn to show our friendship for a man when he is alive and not after he is dead. After that my own rule is to let everything alone.

-- from Great Gatsby.

Saw the Redford version Friday night and your post reminded me of this quote from the movie that had me thinking afterwards.