What REALLY grinds your gears?

[SmootSmack]

Originally Posted by jsarno

How about keeping the blame where it belongs hessy. You women are the toughest critics. You read those damn girly magazines and not a single girl in there is overweight. You put that pressure on yourself more than a man puts it on you. Learn to love yourself no matter how you look. If you need a mans approval, you're not really an independant person.
Stop blaming others.

Well put. Yes, there are men that seem to "get off" (but not in that way, or maybe) putting down the women in their lives. But there are plenty of women who do it to themselves. Just like they're are plenty of men with low self esteem.