advice needed...

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Originally Posted by mredskins

I apologized for my comment and at the time I was reading this I pictured someone doing that to my son. After I had raised/ raising him for someone to swoop in and try to tell or allow them to call them Papi or Dad would send me through the roof.

True, I should have acknowledged that you did eventually apologize

Thanks S10 for the backing, I agree whole heartly with you.

I really think like S10 said you got to live with these kids to find out how it is going to work out. Most people can easily befriend childern they are very trusting and enjoy any adult attention. I could take my son to Chucky Cheese every day and he would love and like the hell out of me, does this make me a good parent? Ah no...

Certainly, my cousins and nieces adore me and think I'm so much fun (and it's so cool how I can get them free passes to Disney World), but I'm not naive to the difficulties and responsibilities of being a real parent

I also find it incrediable how many people back Jsarno on this site after the guy has been a know it all ass to most of us but I guess you guys like the abuse. Is it the flowers he sends to your hospital bed after beating you up the night before that makes you want to take him back?

Which is ultimately what I think is the issue here. Personally, and jsarno already knows this, I could pretty much care less about him. I don't know him, I don't think I'll ever know him, I don't have any desire to. I'm sure he feels the same about me. But I'm trying to put that aside here (as I think others are too), but are you? If it was Sheriff Gonna Getcha for example who had started this thread would your reaction be different?