Advice On Women Thread.

Curious, how many pages did jsarno's thread get up to?

Notice this thread has a generic title, so some other poor pup can revisit this later with his/her female woes.

Curious, how many pages did jsarno's thread get up to?

Notice this thread has a generic title, so some other poor pup can revisit this later with his/her female woes.

That one went to 11

Let me clarify something for you guys. I think there's some confusion.


We both agree to stop having sex if the other person started dated someone else. So she started dated someone else and I cut things off, sexually, per our agreement. A little premature in my reaction, but I did. Where the back and forth has occurred is that she wants to maintain our happy little friendship like it was before while she's dating this new guy. And I'm like hell naw!

In the beginning I agreed that we would remain friends after the sex was done. And I've kept my word. But I didn't say things would be the same. This is what she's so pissed about. The fact that I've now cut things completely off.

So she is or is not still dating this new guy?

I missed the part that she is now banging another dude.

What a bunch of drama. Don't get your feelings caught up with a "friends w/ benefits" type of relationship. I really don't see why you can't be friends. I'm friends with a few women I've nailed. No big deal cause we both knew we weren't right for one another long term. I see you're in DC..I live across the bridge in Arlington. Just move on. There are so many beautiful professional women here that it's almost impossible to not meet someone else.

To summarize, a man can't be friends with a chick he wants to bang and never settle for a tire when you're fishing for salmon.

Let me clarify something for you guys. I think there's some confusion.


We both agree to stop having sex if the other person started dated someone else. So she started dated someone else and I cut things off, sexually, per our agreement. A little premature in my reaction, but I did. Where the back and forth has occurred is that she wants to maintain our happy little friendship like it was before while she's dating this new guy. And I'm like hell naw!

In the beginning I agreed that we would remain friends after the sex was done. And I've kept my word. But I didn't say things would be the same. This is what she's so pissed about. The fact that I've now cut things completely off.

so because she banged another guy for two weeks you can't go back to hitting it now? sounds like you feel betrayed or like you lost possession and it bothers you.. ill agree it's weird in those situations but treat it like a couch.. sink in and you'll feel good and not want to get back out