What is the worst thing you've ever done

Yeah, it was pretty shitty. I am a much better person these days. I only cheat on my wife on Tuesdays, Thursdays and the occasional Saturday morning.

Okay - truly the worst thing I ever did?

Slept with a women I had absolutely no interest in seeing again. Lied, told I DID want to see her again knowing a) it was what she wanted to hear from me (we had dated once b4, she was interested, I was not); and b) it was the only way she'd sleep with me. Now for the bad part...

That night, after doing her, went down the hall had sex with her girlfriend who had been eyeing me earlier. THEN went back to first girl and back to sleep. Got up, had morning sex with the first girl. She fixed me breakfest. When I heard girlfriend coming down, excused myself from breakfest, got in the car and drove off. Never spoke to either one again.

My only defense is that I was much younger then.

No defense needed. You're my friggin hero.

:goodjob:

It's almost impossible for a woman to know if a man is really interested in her. You just never know, because a lot of you lie just to get laid, and say all kinds of things to get in her pants.. and then just walk away. It is so hard to figure out who's being honest and who's not.

LOL

Schneed, as high up on the intellectual respect ladder of mine that you are on, you just went down a rung. It's still pretty high but ...

You flatter me too much... this just proves I'm a big dummy!

I think I come by it honestly, I used to tell my mother that the word gullible was written on the ceiling, and she would look almost every time.

It's almost impossible for a woman to know if a man is really interested in her. You just never know, because a lot of you lie just to get laid, and say all kinds of things to get in her pants.. and then just walk away. It is so hard to figure out who's being honest and who's not.


dont you just love men hesshttp://www.thewarpath.net/images/icons/icon6.gif

bastards.. all of you.. ;-)

We only lie b/c we care.

It's almost impossible for a woman to know if a man is really interested in her. You just never know, because a lot of you lie just to get laid, and say all kinds of things to get in her pants.. and then just walk away. It is so hard to figure out who's being honest and who's not.

It might be easier for women to figure out who the nice guys are if they didn't hand the poon to any douchebag that gives them 30 seconds of attention, in a bar full of drunken frat boys.

It's almost impossible for a woman to know if a man is really interested in her. You just never know, because a lot of you lie just to get laid, and say all kinds of things to get in her pants.. and then just walk away. It is so hard to figure out who's being honest and who's not.

It isn't about what we say, it's about what we do. If we're putting in quality time, taking an interest in the kinds of things that you like, showing interest in your work/family/upbringing/beliefs, then we're being genuine. If we're not putting in the time, then all the talk is meaningless.

Actions speak louder than words, as always.

Trick is, if the woman really wants to know if we're interested, she has to allow the time to determine what our actions are saying. If a woman is talking about getting down and dirty on the first night they meet a guy, she hasn't given herself enough time to determine anything. Then again, if she's willing to get down and dirty on night one, then she's either primarily interested in the sex and not so much caring about connecting emotionally, or her self esteem is low to think that she needs to put out to get a guy truly interested in her.

I'm not talkin about those women, they deserve what they get. I'm talking the men that hang around for a few weeks, flattering and telling the girl all kinds of silliness (lies) until she caves in, and then he walks. Not nice.