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bastards.. all of you.. ;-)


uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh dont generalize there my parents were married when i was bornhttp://www.thewarpath.net/images/icons/icon12.gif

It isn't about what we say, it's about what we do. If we're putting in quality time, taking an interest in the kinds of things that you like, showing interest in your work/family/upbringing/beliefs, then we're being genuine. If we're not putting in the time, then all the talk is meaningless.

Actions speak louder than words, as always.

Trick is, if the woman really wants to know if we're interested, she has to allow the time to determine what our actions are saying. If a woman is talking about getting down and dirty on the first night they meet a guy, she hasn't given herself enough time to determine anything. Then again, if she's willing to get down and dirty on night one, then she's either primarily interested in the sex and not so much caring about connecting emotionally, or her self esteem is low to think that she needs to put out to get a guy truly interested in her.

That's an awful lot of guessing that a woman has to be doing. Men will act like they care too, not just say the words... some men lay it on thick and then just walk.

We only lie b/c we care.


that is true

that is true

what kind of twisted crap is that? you lie because you care? about what? not getting caught?

I'm not talkin about those women, they deserve what they get. I'm talking the men that hang around for a few weeks, flattering and telling the girl all kinds of silliness (lies) until she caves in, and then he walks. Not nice.

If a guy is willing to work that hard just to swipe the poon, he's more than just despicable, he's a loser. As soon as he realizes he's going to have to work that hard, he should just move on to the next target. I mean how hot is the sex going to be if you have to wear them down with persistence?

If a guy is willing to work that hard just to swipe the poon, he's more than just despicable, he's a loser. As soon as he realizes he's going to have to work that hard, he should just move on to the next target. I mean how hot is the sex going to be if you have to wear them down with persistence?

.... I'm lost..

I'm not talkin about those women, they deserve what they get. I'm talking the men that hang around for a few weeks, flattering and telling the girl all kinds of silliness (lies) until she caves in, and then he walks. Not nice.

Yeah, those guys are assholes. The sad part is it's usually older guys(older than college age), that do it, and they tend to target women that are in a vulnerable positions like just out of a relationship/marriage, etc.

That's an awful lot of guessing that a woman has to be doing. Men will act like they care too, not just say the words... some men lay it on thick and then just walk.

See my previous post. I'm with you, they're despicable. And losers.

Who wastes that much time when they're not getting what they want? If what you want is sex, and you're not getting it, move on. It means the woman doesn't get strung along, and it means the man gets to look for someone who shares his interest - a romp in the sack.

what kind of twisted crap is that? you lie because you care? about what? not getting caught?

I was joking. Chill.

.... I'm lost..

I mean to say that guys will lie to get in your pants on a one night stand, that's pretty normal guy behavior. You have to expect that and guard yourself against it (unless you want a one nighter).

But the guys who are willing to put in weeks of time lying to you and acting like they love you and they're interested, just to get a piece off you? They're losers. If they have to spend that much time, they're pathetic anyway, and you're better off without them.